hospital happy list...

As some of you may know, I am once again in the glorious place known as the hospital. The hospital is, by far, my least favorite place to be in the world. Yet I seem to find myself here often. The times while I am in the hospital test my faith more than I would like for it to be tested. However, I usually learn more about my God and his faithfulness during these times than the easy times.
In order to keep myself far, far away from the doom and gloom attitude that I so easily go to, I am going to make a list. This is just a list of random things. Random, positive things that I learn, enjoy, or am grateful for while in the hospital. I will focus on the positive, praise Him in in the storm, and CHOOSE to be joyful.

My Hospital Happy List:
1. I can watch all day Law and Order SVU marathons without feeling guilty.
2. I get to literally see how much I am loved by people in my life via phone calls, flowers, cards, balloons, texts, hospital visits, facebook, emails, and much more.
3. My mom buys me new pajamas every time. I don't know why really, she just does.
4. I get to make friends with all the nurses on my hall. I know them all by now though, so its more like catching up with old friends.
5. I get to rely on God for everything.
6. I am humbled. I see how I simply cannot survive without my Lord and Savior.
7. I get to see miracles and answered prayers daily.
8. I chew lots of gum.
9. I watch lots of movies.
10. Towards the end of my hospital stay, I get to have slushies. Lots and lots of slushies. I sure do love slushies.
11. My faith is tested, I persevere, and I grow closer to Jesus.

This list was hard for me to make. It was my first instinct to create a long, long list of negative things about being sick. BUT...that is simply pointless. I will focus on the good. I trust that the Lord has a bigger plan for my life. Bigger than my chronic illness and bigger than this hospital bed. He is able, good, and faithful. I am right to trust in Him. Well then, that's all for now! Have a good day! I sure hope this post makes sense..sometimes I am a bit loopy in the hospital. :)
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true life: i love 'touched by an angel'

Ok, I have a confession. When I was younger (and still now) I loved the show Touched by an Angel. I know, I know its kinda lame. Seriously lame: bad acting and lame, sappy lines. But hey, its good, family friendly television with a wholesome message. What ever happened to that? I don't know. Hard to find unless you watch the Hallmark Channel. (thats where old reruns of Touched by an Angel run in case you want to know) Anywho, as a child I totally connected with this one, specific episode. I still remember the feeling I felt when I watched it the first time.

Quick recap of the story: There is this boy with a terminal illness (cystic fibrosis I believe), he is not getting any better and his doctors don't think he will live much longer. The whole story line of touched by an angel is that these three angels (Monica, Tess, and Andrew) come down and show God's compassion and love to the suffering people in the storyline. Its sweet. So in this particular episode the three angels help this boy, his best friend, and single mother deal with the fact that the little boy probably won't get better. (so sad) They help the little boy live his last days, prepare for heaven, etc.

The point of all this is that this story was an inspiration to me as a child. The fact that God's love was shown in such a dark situation really gave me hope as a child with a chronic illness. Yes, I know the story isn't necessarily true but there are little heroes all over the world much like the boy in this story. Little heroes that have more courage in the difficult trials of life than I could ever imagine having. Even though this particular story is fictional, the moral of the story is still there. God never leaves us. He provides the strength and courage we need to persevere. He also provides the love and compassion of others to help us along. He is so willing to help us through the dark moments if we just let him.

I really encourage you to watch the next two videos. They are two clips of my favorite parts from this episode I described. One has Wynonna Judd singing a song in the final scene of the show. The words to this song are so powerful. I posted them below. The next is another clip to kind of explain the episode and another song with encouraging lyrics. I know the acting is not so hot but just the message is so sweet. I pretty much cry everytime I see it (in a good way).
Well there is my embarrassing confession. Admit it, you like it too. You can't help but like Monica...with that accent and all. I think its Scottish? or British? who knows.





Lyrics
For as long as I shall live
I will testify to love
I'll be a witness in the silence
when words are not enough
With every breath I take
I will give thanks to God above
For as long as I shall live
I will testify love.



I want to testify love. To be a witness in the silences when words are not enough. That should be my life mission. To show love and compassion to every person. Always keep the little ones (and their families) of the world that fight a terminal illness in your prayers. They are my heroes. Happy Sunday!

using my powers for the good

A really tough lesson I never seem to learn is the power of my words. In the past, I have subconsciously held the opinion that my words don't effect people. I thought words were only powerful when they were extremely positive or extremely negative. You know what I mean? I thought words did not impact people unless the words stood out for some specific reason. Like if I told a good friend, "You are a wonderful friend. You always think of others, you are always there for me, you bake wonderful cookies, and you always share your clothes with me." I would have thought those words would have probably stayed with this person for at least a couple of hours, if not days...because the comment stands out. Anywho, on the flip side..if I decided to be extremely negative like this, "Hey, I don't like your hair cut and that color you are wearing...eh..not really flattering on you". That comment would stand out...don't ya think? Not to mention they probably wouldn't wear that color any more. Not that I would say this to someone..those are just the kinds of words I always assumed would effect a person.

I never have taken the time to assess the power of my every word. Even ordinary words. Even words I say to myself. Every word I say is an opportunity to bring someone hope or strength. Ever looked at it that way? Me either. Thats kind of a big burden.

The Bible makes many a mention of the importance and power of our spoken words and the power of the tongue (James 3, Proverbs13:3, Proverbs 15:4 and many many more). When I was little, I was so confused what it meant when the Bible talked about our 'tongues'. I remember thinking, "Why is my tongue so powerful?? I just use it to eat. The tongue is really weird looking too. Why does God think that weird thing is so important?" Seriously, I was so literal as a kid.

As an adult, I understand why the Bible brings it up so much. There have been countless times I have been completely burned by a person's negative words. Negative words have a way of sticking with you and resurfacing at all the wrong times. When I was in high school, I had this boyfriend who was constantly telling me awful things he thought about me. Now I know those comments are all lies. Even then, I might have known the comments weren't necessarily true but it didn't stop me from believing them. Those negative ideas about myself stayed with me for years. Those simple words he probably forgot years ago, stayed with me and caused me to falsely define myself.

There is a flip side. Positive words have a way of sticking with us too. Whenever I doubt myself, I can think of encouraging words people have spoken to me. Encouraging words that a person might not have even known I desperately needed to hear.

There is a specific verse in the Bible I think of every time I need to remind myself of how important my words are:
"For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way." James 3:2
Wow. Pretty powerful huh? Our words are SO important. Our words guide our entire lives. Think about it. A simple word of encouragement can change your entire day. A few words can change the entire direction of a life. Thats why it is so important to...THINK before we SPEAK. My mother tried to teach me this as a child. I was too stubborn to get it. I still am. But I think I get the importance of it now. What I say to a person will stay with them forever. If I say a hurtful comment to a person, I can apologize a gazillion times but I can't un-say it. They already heard it and it will stay with them. You can't erase it. Gosh I wish we could.
The same theme applies when James talks about being "quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry" (James 1:19). God is really clear. Think before using words. They are so powerful.

I need to learn to use this "power" for the good. Use words for the cause of the Lord. His cause is to love. Love and encourage with my words always. Easier said then done, I know. But remember....With Christ all things are possible....

be still

Patience is not really a quality that I possess. I am actually horrible at being patient, in all departments. I admit, I have horrible road rage. Just ask anyone that has ever rode in the "stang" (my car) with me or been on the phone with me while I am driving. Its really bad. I just don't understand why people drive slow. It is beyond my comprehension. Seriously..WHY would you want to go slow?? Here I go, getting all mad when I am not even in my car. I probably need therapy. haha. Not only am I inpatient in my car, I am inpatient in restaurants. I also am the most punctual person you will ever meet. When people are late, it gets on my nerves. Just being honest. I am also extremely inpatient in life too. I want things to happen when I want them to and how I want them to. I am so human. Its frustrating really.

This is a really tough subject for me to talk about because honestly, I don't want to learn patience. If I learn to be patient...won't that mean that I will be okay with waiting for things and slowing down?? Thats the way my little brain sees it. However, being patient and being still is an important concept for me to learn and accept. Not only just to plain accept waiting, but also learn to enjoy the stillness, to see beauty in the waiting times.

As I was thinking about why patience is so hard for me, I had an 'aha!' moment. Patience is so painful because a lot of the time, I don't trust God. It always comes back to that, doesn't it? I want to make things happen. I always give God things and then take it back. A lot of times I don't trust in the power of God. I don't know if it is because I think He simply can't handle it (which really is ridiculous if I think about it) or He just doesn't 'have time' for the little things.

As always, I look for lots of scripture to help me really grasp and learn what the Lord is teaching me. I found a ton of scripture on the importance of patience. (grreeaaat, means I should learn it) Anywho, the scripture made me realize patience is not something to dread. It is a hopeful and peaceful action. To put my hope in Christ and to wait for him to take action is a beautiful surrender.

"God, who gives patience and encouragement..."
Romans 15:5
"I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in Him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit."
Romans 15:13

So first, God is the one who gives me this patience. It is obviously not a natural ability for me. I must ask for and then receive this patience. When God gives patience he also gives encouragement. I will never be called to be patient in a situation and then receive no encouragement from the Lord. I will never have to just wait in silence without any comfort to get me through. God provides it all. He provides the ability to wait patiently and then he provides the love and strength to persevere through the waiting times. Thankfully, he knows my inadequacies in this department. He will provide what I need to 'be still and know that he is God' (psalm 46:1)

The second verse really opened up my eyes to the beauty and vulnerability of patience. We will be FILLED completely with JOY and PEACE when we trust in him. Gosh, he never leaves anything out, does he?? He thinks of everything! He knows that in order to be patient and to trust him, we will definitely need joy and peace. He is so good. Not only will I be waiting for him and his guidance, I will be living a life of joy and peace. A joyful, adventurous life here and now. I do not have to waste the waiting stages by constantly looking to the next stage. I will live this waiting period with excitement! Always looking for God and always living and loving the adventure he undoubtedly will provide.

The verse goes on to say that we will OVERFLOW with confident hope through the Holy Spirit. Synonyms for overflow are abound, swarm, multiply, and in large quantities. (I do love my pocket thesaurus, we are BFF) Our hope will be multiplied by the Holy Spirit. Not only hope for the future and hope that God will provide in all seasons..but a hope for TODAY. We are to be patient but patience does not have to equal dull, boring, or unhappiness. Be confident in God. Have confidence in the fact that God will answer your prayers and will hear your cries."As for me, I look to the Lord for help. I wait confidently for God to save me, and my God will certainly hear me" Micah 7:7. Have that attitude in your waiting stages. What you are waiting for may be huge or small but God will come through. He always does. He will certainly hear you.

I feel lately God is teaching me like crazy. I am just trying to keep up! He is so good. He is a teacher, a friend, a beloved, a King, and my everything. He can certainly bring you adventure, love, purpose, and joy while you are patiently waiting for him. Be still, thankfully He is God and we are not.

a powerful belief

Do I believe God or do I just believe in God? Sure, they sound the same. Is there any real difference? If there is a difference, does it really matter? Is there a way to believe God more? What is there to believe other than the existence of God? All these questions have been running through my mind these past couple of days. I'll tell you what started it all: the ever looming future.  

Like many, I worry about my future. Like forreal worry. Just to name a few of my worries: Have I chosen the right career? Will I get into grad school? Will I survive this semester? Have I taken on too much? Will I ever get married? Will I ever have kids? Will my health continue to get worse? Will I ever have this picture perfect life I see others living? and most of all: Where does my money go and will I ever make enough??? (money worries are the worst) Those are just to name a few. Told you I worry...believe me now??

As I was stressing out about everything and anything, I thought...do I believe God? Do I believe what he has promised all of us throughout the Bible? I mean sure, I believe in God. I took that first step of believing he exists years ago. I believe with all my heart that my creator exists. Not only do I believe he exists, I believe he is good. I can't begin to put into words the rationale behind why I believe God exists. It comes from my soul and it overwhelms me with the truth of him. Okay, so step 1: believe God exists. Got it. step 2: I believe the Bible is true. Every word of it. As a new believer I struggled with this step. Do I have to believe everything? Are all the Old Testament stories real? Isn't it antiquated? But I came to the conclusion...the Bible is true and God's word (2 Tim 3:16) As for the old testament, I believe in Christ and He believed in a literal old testament...so I do too. (See Matt 24. Jesus refers to the days of Noah and the Ark). Okay, so got step 2 covered: I believe that the Bible is the real deal. Step 3: Do I believe everything God has promised me in the Bible? Do I believe what God says he will  and won't do? This step is a bit more fuzzy in my case.

If I believed in all God has promised, would I be so completely worried about every little thing in my life? Would I be trying so hard to create my own future and my own path because I am so scared if I don't, no one will? I don't think so.

If I did believe all God has promised I would be living one heck of a life here and now.
In Ephesians (yes, I am still on this book), Paul touches on the idea of belief and all the power we have through God.

And when you believed in Christ, he identified you as his own by giving you the Holy Spirit, whom he promised long ago. The Spirit is God's guarantee that he will give us the inheritance he promised and that he has purchased us to be his own people. Ephesians 1:13-14
I also pray that you will understand the incredible greatness of God's power for us who believe him. This is the same mighty power that raised Christ from the dead and seated him in the place of honor at God's right hand in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 1:19-20

Okay..these verses are a lot more powerful than I originally realized. If you really take time to digest what these verses mean...its incredible. It simply is amazing. Read the verses again. These promises are for you.

Paul ensures us that God has fulfilled his promises and that he will continue to fulfill his promises. He has given us the Spirit of God to guide us through this life on earth. The Spirit is a gift and a tool that we often forget. The Spirit is God's wisdom, power, and love at our very fingertips. Use it!

In the second verse, Paul emphasizes the importance of understanding the fact that when we believe in Christ, we are given God's amazing power. It is the same awesome power that raised Christ from the dead!! This power is used in our favor when we trust in Him. In Mark 9:25, Jesus says, "What do you mean, 'if I can?' Anything is possible if a person believes." In John 11:40 Jesus says, "Didn't I tell you that you would see God's glory if you believe?" So should I believe Him? Do I believe that he can handle my future? He can handle my fears? He can handle my grad school? He can handle my relationships? He can overcome my sickness? The answer is yes yes yes yes yes! He can. Why do I forget that? He can handle anything I throw at him. For he has the power to raise the dead and to do much much much more than we can imagine. I will see God's glory if I believe Him. Anything is possible if I just believe him. Anything. Not just the little things. Anything.

So tell me, can I trust God and his promises? I can. I can trust a God that has never backed down from a commitment, a God that always fulfills promises, a God that has the power to raise the dead, a God that never leaves, a God that never disappoints, a God that is everlasting, stunning, all powerful and at the same time loving, forgiving, gracious, and giving. He will never leave me like others have. He will never lie to me, He will never hurt me, He will be the rock I have never had. I can trust him with my future.

So today and every day, I will pray like the man in Mark 9:23 "I do believe but help me overcome my unbelief!" Help me believe you God. There is nothing too big for you to handle. I can give you everything without fear of hurt or rejection. You never disappoint me and you will fulfill every promise you have ever made.

Happy Monday! (is there such a thing? haha. kidding...kind of.) love love love, dana


I was emailed this video. Very interesting and powerful. Watch it! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YoIDjj86fwI

Unlikely Answers

Lately, I have been getting a lot of what I like to call: unlikely and unlikeable answers to my prayers. Here is the deal. I was supposed to have two surgeries this week. I have been praying and praying about these procedures. I have been nervous and excited about the possible answers these procedures might bring. However, the main prayer I have been praying and asking others to pray is this: please pray I don't get sicker from the procedures, no pancreatitis please! I just want to keep my health. I wanted health but truthfully, I also wanted answers. I had in mind that God was going to protect me during the procedures, I trusted in that. I also had in my mind my idea of what would constitute an answered prayer. Health and Answers.
So anywho, my parents and I drive all the way to Charleston (not really that far) to have a meeting with the team of doctors. I had been anxious the whole drive there. We got into the meeting and the doctors told us that they believe that at this point these procedures hold more risks than rewards in my particular case. I was let down. I was disappointed that God had not answered my prayers! Here I am at the same place I started, there is nothing else that can be done for my conditions. I immediately went into pity party mode.
Then as I was praying an angry prayer, I realized...God answered my prayers. Quite specifically actually. There I was, getting angry and being ungrateful for an answered prayer: God protected me by allowing the doctors to use their medical wisdom. I was protected. God had directly answered my prayers and many other prayers that had been prayed for me.

Then I got to thinking...I do this all the time. God answers my prayers and I don't give Him glory and most of the time I blindly believe that I have been ignored by my Father. I need a different perspective.
Although at first, I might not understand why God has answered in a specific way...I have to know and trust he has a specific plan. He is good to me. He hears and answers my cries. Amazing huh???

Sometimes I spend hours praying about a certain issue in my life. I pray for guidance, wisdom, answers...anything! I get so lost in the problem, whatever it might be. Why does it say all in the Bible that God answers prayers, grants desires of the heart, and gives us all wisdom and understanding if it isn't true?? I feel some days that praying is God's version of 'busy work'. Pray, pray, pray, pray to keep you busy but no real purpose in the end. However, it says in the Bible that God hears my cry and therefore I believe it. He answers without hesitation and delay. Believe it. Philippians 4:6, James 5:12, 2 Chronicles 30:27, Colossians 4:2, Psalm 145:9 and many many more proclaim the effectiveness of prayer.

Here is the problem: We often miss the answers to our questions and prayers because
a. we don't like the answers God gives us,
b. It is not what we expected to hear and it is not what we thought we needed or
c. we have our prayers answered in some form and we forget to acknowledge God's work in our life and deny Him the glory he deserves. We assume we answered our own prayers.

There are other reasons we miss answered prayers I am sure. And you might be thinking, well sometimes, I feel God totally just ignores me and thats that. I understand that thought process. I have thought those very thoughts myself. However, that just isn't true. God hears our cries. He never ignores us and He never leaves us. There is no problem too big and no problem too small. He answers every single prayer. Here is the issue I often have: I forget God is Sovereign. He is the maker of the universe and the maker of you and me. So sure, if we were the creator, we could make up our own rules and answer prayers the way we wish. But..you are not the creator and neither am I. We forget God has this bigger plan for our lives and for this world. We have to believe and trust in the unfailing, unwavering love of Christ.
I have been reading Ephesians a lot lately. I love this book of the Bible. God has been teaching me a lot through this book.

Ephesians 1:8 & 11 say:
He has showered his kindness on us along with all wisdom and understanding....
Furthermore, because we are united with Christ, we have recieved an inheritance from God, for he chose us in advance, and he makes everything work out according to his plan.

I love these two verses. I love all the different translations of these verses. Especially in the New International Version and Amplified Bible, it says God LAVISHED kindness, wisdom, and understanding upon us. Lavish means, bountiful, lush, exuberant, open handed, and generous. God exuberantly gives us all we need. He is open handed when it comes to giving us wisdom and understanding. We ask and he gives. Believe that. Look for his wisdom and understanding in all the wrong places. Look for Him everywhere you go and in every thing you do. He is there, unexpectedly guiding you and lovingly pointing you in the right direction.

When the direction God is pointing me is not what I wanted or expected, it is time for me to have deliberate faith. He makes EVERYTHING work out according to his plan. Everything. Nothing I do is pointless. God is molding me (and you) into the woman I was originally designed to be. Its exciting. Trust Him, he won't lead you astray. He is good and he loves you more than you could ever imagine. He will never hurt you. He only wants to heal you and bless you.

I hope what God has been teaching me lately might help someone just a tidge. Have a great Thursday! :)


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Deeper Still

This past weekend I went to the Deeper Still conference in Orlando, Fla. with my very best friend al, my mom, and her two wonderful friends. It was a really great experience. God taught me so much through Beth Moore, Kay Arthur, and Priscilla Shirer. The Lord really works through these three women. They know the hearts of women and how women perceive this world and our God. I was blown away by the things God taught me this weekend. God is truly a master at teaching every person a different lesson from the same experience.
The main thing I took away from this weekend was to stay in the Word of God. My God has spoken and He need not speak again. All I need to know is in the Word of God. I want to know Christ more and to do that, I will study God's word and make it my life's goal to know those 66 books better than I know anything in this world. It has always been a dream of mine to educate people about God and to inspire others through writing. I hope one day I could be used by God in that way.
Anywho, on the way back I was reading some of Ephesians and I wanted to share my take.

Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes.
Ephesians 1:4 (NLT)

Before God even made the world, he knew me. Before he made the world, he knew my story, my life, my mistakes, my mind, my decisions, my struggles, my desires, and my imperfect love for him. Despite all that, before he made the world he loved me. He loved me then and he loves me now. He knew then and knows now the secrets of my heart and loves me infinitely, despite all my failings. I find this amazing. Because I find this so amazing, I find it hard to believe. I find it hard to accept this perfect, irrational love. I think that makes me love Him all the more. I don't understand Him. I love mysteries.
The verse continues on and the next part shocks and amazes me more. Not only did he know and love me before time, but he chose me. HE CHOSE ME. The maker of the ocean, sunsets, puppies, love, mysteries, the stars, heaven, the entire universe: CHOSE me. Me: selfish, unlovable, fearful, insecure, jealous, little old me. He wants me and desires me and he has since the beginning of time. He chose me to be His daughter and enter His royal family. Does anyone else find that breathtaking? unimaginable? yeah, me too. It's a crazy concept but its the truth. So now, I choose Him. I choose to follow Him because it is an honor to love Him. It is an honor to be a part of this family.
And if THAT is not enough, not only does he know me, love me and choose me, but he has chosen me to be holy and without fault in His eyes. whoa.
So, God knows me, loves me, chose me, sees me as holy and sees me without fault. He knows my past, my faults, my sins, and all the secrets I keep and yet he sees me without fault. This is incomprehensible to me. I am certainly not designed to be that gracious. When I know some one else's deepest darkest secrets, it definitely doesn't come natural to see them 'without fault and holy.' Anyone else smelling what I'm stepping in? Could this be fair? Nope. It sure isn't. It's grace. Its a beautiful mystery and I fall deeper in love with Him every day because of who He is.
My human mind does not even comprehend God's love and idea of relationship. His love is more than a feeling, its a force. A force that at times takes my breath away. I never want to lose this gratitude I have for His grace and love.
It is absolutely crazy that in His eyes I am faultless, beautiful, holy, adored, pure, beloved, and complete. God is worthy. He is able.



I would really appreciate prayers this week. I am going to the Medical University of South Carolina for a couple of procedures. Prayers for good results! Love you all!!